Imagine this: you’re standing in line, riding the subway, or sitting in an important meeting – and suddenly your chest tightens, your breathing speeds up, and your thoughts start spinning in circles. It feels like the ground is disappearing beneath you, and like everyone around you can see it. This is a panic attack, and it can hit anyone, anywhere, at any time – especially now, when anxiety levels among Ukrainians are through the roof due to the war, air raid alerts, and constant uncertainty.
The good news is that there’s a simple, science-backed way to calm your nervous system quickly, right on the spot – no medication, no need to go anywhere. It’s called EFT – Emotional Freedom Technique, also known as tapping.

What is EFT and why does it work
EFT is a technique that combines light tapping on specific points of the body (mostly on the face, hands, and upper torso) with speaking your feelings out loud. These points align with acupuncture points that have long been used in Eastern medicine to release tension.
When we feel anxious, the body shifts into “fight or flight” mode – the sympathetic nervous system activates, cortisol is released, and the heart races. Tapping on these points while calmly talking yourself through it sends a signal to the brain: “there is no threat, I am safe.” This shifts the nervous system out of alarm mode and into calm — and relief often comes within minutes.
A Simple exercise you can try right now
You don’t need to memorize a complex sequence to get your first moment of relief. Here’s a basic step to start with:
- Find the point on your collarbone – just below where your collarbones meet, about an inch down and to the side.
- Using two fingers (index and middle), gently tap this point five times.
- Silently or quietly say to yourself: “I’m feeling anxious, and that’s okay. I am safe right now.”
- If the wave of anxiety is still there – repeat it again.
That’s it. A simple, discreet movement you can do even in a crowded place – no one will even notice.
Why It matters not to just “Wait it out”
Many people try to simply push through a panic attack, hoping it will pass on its own. But the longer the body stays in a state of heightened arousal, the harder it becomes to come back down. EFT lets you actively interrupt this process instead of passively enduring it. This matters especially for children and teens, whose nervous systems are still developing and who often don’t have the words to explain what’s happening to them.
EFT isn’t just for panic
While this technique works wonders in acute moments of anxiety, it’s also effective for:
- relieving chronic stress;
- processing the effects of traumatic events;
- improving sleep;
- lowering overall anxiety levels.
For children who have experienced war, loss of loved ones, or forced displacement, simple body-based self-regulation techniques like this one can become an accessible tool they can use on their own – at home, at school, anywhere.
Our mission
At Hope – Children of Ukraine, we believe that mental health is just as much a part of recovery as physical safety or education. That’s why we support initiatives that teach children and adults simple, effective self-help tools for stressful situations.
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Want to learn the full technique?
The point on your collarbone is just one piece of EFT. The full technique includes several more key points and sequences that help you move through waves of anxiety and stress more deeply and effectively.
We’ve put together a complete course, “EFT Tapping: Quick Stress & Panic Attack Relief,” that walks you step by step through the entire technique – so you can confidently use it on your own in any stressful moment.
And most importantly – 100% of the proceeds from the course go toward supporting Ukrainian children through the Hope – Children of Ukraine Foundation.